Instant Gratification – Cultivating Lasting Connections Regardless
In our fast-paced, short attention span, social media-driven world (that was a mouthful), where instant gratification reigns supreme, the art of cultivating deep, meaningful connections in relationships often gets lost in the shuffle. We swipe right, match, date a dozen people in a month, and move on before truly understanding what makes a relationship thrive. […]
Tips for Successfully Dating in Nigeria’s Unique Landscape
Finding love or even a suitable companion in today’s Nigeria is an exciting yet often complex journey. With a dynamic social scene, across all major cities, diverse cultural norms, and the ever-present influence of family and friends, Nigerian singles face unique challenges in the dating scene. But fear not! These tips, tailored to the very […]
Love: The Surprising Health Benefits of A Happy Relationship
Forget expensive supplements, restrictive diets, and agbo of all kinds – the secret to optimal health might just be nestled in the warm embrace of a caring lover. While romantic comedies often portray love as a whirlwind of flowers, candlelit dinners, and the eventual rump in the sheets, research suggests there’s much more to it […]
Help! Love wey sweet pass suya won scatter
E shock me pass NEPA blackout dis kain afternoon! Me wey dey para like correct Naija babe done scatter my six years hustle with Emeka like overripe agbalumo. Abeg, make una sisters gather round, cos dis tori go bend una ear. So, dis fine boy wey be like butter wey melt for hot akara, na […]
Deception story: My Emeka and the foreign suitor
My story… My head throbbed with a rhythm louder than the pounding Afrobeat playing at Mama Ngozi’s. Each bass note resonated with the guilt gnawing at my insides. Let me tell you my deception story. See, I messed up. Big time. The kind of mess-up that could unravel everything I’ve built with Emeka, the love […]
Online dating, self-esteem and mental health
The rise of social media and online dating apps has revolutionized how people connect and form relationships. However, this digital landscape can also be a breeding ground for negativity, particularly when it comes to body image and self-esteem. Consequently, in the modern world, especially among people of a certain demographic, self-esteem issues generally lead to […]
The benefits of online dating on mental health
Thanks to Covid… In recent years, online dating has emerged as a popular way for people to meet potential partners. This phenomenon was greatly heightened by the Covid-19 pandemic. This period witnessed the exponential growth of online dating and matchmaking apps and platforms. This growth also witnessed improved security on the more popular apps. More […]
Growth Edge: When Relationships Challenge Your Comfort Zone
Relationships by their very nature, force us to interact with different personalities, perspectives, and values. While some connections provide effortless comfort and joy, others test our comfort zones, frustrate us, and even cause us pain. But here’s the surprising truth: even these challenging relationships can be powerful catalysts for personal growth. Like martial artist refining […]
Personal growth and development via healthy relationships
There are many aspects to personal growth – time management, emotional intelligence, developing a growth mindset, and so on. But ultimately, humans are social creatures. We crave connection, belonging, and the comfort of knowing we’re not alone in this wild ride called life. And so, beyond the basic need for companionship, healthy relationships offer a […]
