6 Bad Boy Traits That Make Him Surprisingly Irresistible

Bad boy traits ____________________ Will Smith will probably spend the rest of his life wanting desperately to be Tupac. It’s all very well being funny and good-looking, and having all the money and fame in tow. Yet. It’s the guy who most portends danger that seems to get all the attention from the ladies. The […]
Single Life: 5 Signs He’s Genuinely Built for Happy Solo Ending

Single Life: “You read me wrong, I wasn’t trying to lead you on, Not like you think, I didn’t mean to turn you on”. Robert Palmer put it so succinctly in his 1986 hit single. Single life: It is what it is Well, here’s a simple truth. Not a very popular one, but a truth […]
Is He Playing You? 6 Bright Red Flags Say Yes!

Is he playing you? Can you tell if he’s serious or just out for a little fun? If you’re not terribly interested in a serious relationship yourself, then you’re in luck. You’ll both enjoy a fun non-committal relationship and when either or both of you are tired, you can move on. But what if YOU […]
Spoilt for choice – 3 tips for choosing the right one

Spoilt for choice: One of the unexpected fallouts of online dating and social media is the massive increase in choice sets people now have. From what to watch, who to date, what to eat, where to eat, it’s one option after the other. And with relationships specifically, it’s now so much easier than ever to […]
Dating a low(er) guy – Should class and background really matter?

The short answer of course is yes. Class and background do matter. A great deal in fact. Yet, it’s the biggest elephant in the room, when choosing a partner these days. In these parts, the women are looking at his bank balance, or at least the indicators of what it might look like, while the […]
Red Flags: Cheater alert for both genders

You just know something is not right with your partner. Maybe it’s his body language. Maybe it’s the change in habits. Whatever it is, there’s just a nagging sense something is a little off with him. It’s like a gut feeling. And no, you’re not paranoid. Or at least, you don’t think you are. There […]
Sense of entitlement: A 2 Count Recipe for Disaster

Sense of entitlement: A 2 Count Recipe for Disaster: As women, we’ve all been guilty of taking our partners for granted at some point or another. And it’s easy to see how this can happen – 1st we get comfortable, too comfortable, and assume our men will always be there. We forget to appreciate even […]
Recognizing the Signs of Depression and Anxiety

There is still a stigma attached to mental health issues in many parts of the world. It’s like a personal failing or even a sign of parental failure. Mental health is in fact treated as separate from overall wellbeing. But its not. It is a crucial aspect of our overall well-being, yet it often goes […]
Single male friends: 3 Reasons We Crave Them

Single male friends portend trouble. Have them only if they’re unattractive: It is nearly impossible to be in a committed relationship – dating or married and have a male friend who is just a friend. It’s only a matter of time and/or opportunity. Ask yourself, what exactly is the basis for the friendship? Because attractive […]
Using Jealousy to escape the Friend Zone: A Strategic Approach

As a follow-up to the earlier friend zone post, we will now look closely at how best to get out of this much-hated space with a little dignity in place, one way or the other! Just to confirm, so you are stuck in the friend zone with someone who thinks you’re just a great buddy, […]