6 Bad Boy Traits That Make Him Surprisingly Irresistible

Bad boy traits ____________________ Will Smith will probably spend the rest of his life wanting desperately to be Tupac. It’s all very well being funny and good-looking, and having all the money and fame in tow. Yet. It’s the guy who most portends danger that seems to get all the attention from the ladies. The […]
Sigma vs Alpha Males: 5 Pros & Cons Women Should Know

Sigma vs Alpha Male: Decoding the Personalities and What Women Should Know: Once upon a time, the alpha male was all the rage. It was Andrew Tate or nothing. The cold, unfeeling stud, always on his game, breaking hearts along the way. But, as is usually the case, no one gets to enjoy a monopoly […]
Are Single Women the Happiest People on Earth?

A recent Forbes article – “4 Reasons Why Single Women Are the Happiest People on Earth” has sparked a flurry of online discussions. The very clever psychologist Dr. Travis Stork breaks down the research behind this claim, exploring the potential benefits and drawbacks of the single life for women. Interestingly, my systematic review on marriage […]
Single Life: 5 Signs He’s Genuinely Built for Happy Solo Ending

Single Life: “You read me wrong, I wasn’t trying to lead you on, Not like you think, I didn’t mean to turn you on”. Robert Palmer put it so succinctly in his 1986 hit single. Single life: It is what it is Well, here’s a simple truth. Not a very popular one, but a truth […]
Is He Playing You? 6 Bright Red Flags Say Yes!

Is he playing you? Can you tell if he’s serious or just out for a little fun? If you’re not terribly interested in a serious relationship yourself, then you’re in luck. You’ll both enjoy a fun non-committal relationship and when either or both of you are tired, you can move on. But what if YOU […]
Cougars and Cubs: Smart Millennial Women & Easy Gen Z Men

Cougars and cubs are likely to be at different stages in their lives, with quite different levels of education, career, or personal growth. Admittedly, the men have had it their way for a very long time. Older guys aka sugar daddies or zaddies even, had their pick of all available and willing women. And the […]
Dating a low(er) guy – Should class and background really matter?

The short answer of course is yes. Class and background do matter. A great deal in fact. Yet, it’s the biggest elephant in the room, when choosing a partner these days. In these parts, the women are looking at his bank balance, or at least the indicators of what it might look like, while the […]
Red Flags: Cheater alert for both genders

You just know something is not right with your partner. Maybe it’s his body language. Maybe it’s the change in habits. Whatever it is, there’s just a nagging sense something is a little off with him. It’s like a gut feeling. And no, you’re not paranoid. Or at least, you don’t think you are. There […]
Cheating partners explained scientifically: it’s not their fault

We’ve all been there directly or otherwise – cheating partners, rumors of infidelity, and disloyalty. The philandering boyfriend or the two-timing girlfriend. And we all love the gossip about promiscuity. Nothing titillates quite like the sordid details of an affair made public. And then the blame game follows. My personal favorite has to be “You […]
Sense of entitlement: A 2 Count Recipe for Disaster

Sense of entitlement: A 2 Count Recipe for Disaster: As women, we’ve all been guilty of taking our partners for granted at some point or another. And it’s easy to see how this can happen – 1st we get comfortable, too comfortable, and assume our men will always be there. We forget to appreciate even […]