Breaking Up – Chapter 3
Breaking up is easy, moving on is hard… or is it? It was another Friday, and as usual, Steph had gone to George’s house for the weekend. That evening, he returned from work, and they shared a lovely homemade dinner, followed by one of his strange mystery movies she had slowly come to enjoy. Endure? […]
Playing Away: The Happy Meeting – Chapter 2
playing away… looking beyond the Homefront for the proverbial greener grass on the other side: Steph sighed as she scrolled through her phone for the hundredth time. Nothing exciting was happening at home, and she was growing restless. She needed a change of scenery. “Chioma, let’s go to the mall,” she said, turning to her sister. […]
OCD #1: Super Generous, Yet Super Controlling
CHAPTER ONE Steph had just returned home after another long weekend with her boyfriend, George, who she had met online. At first, their relationship felt like a dream. George adored her. He was everything she thought she wanted – he was attentive, generous, and deeply in love with her. For six months… …things seemed to […]
6 Bad Boy Traits That Make Him Surprisingly Irresistible
Bad boy traits ____________________ Will Smith will probably spend the rest of his life wanting desperately to be Tupac. It’s all very well being funny and good-looking, and having all the money and fame in tow. Yet. It’s the guy who most portends danger that seems to get all the attention from the ladies. The […]
Sigma vs Alpha Males: 5 Pros & Cons Women Should Know
Sigma vs Alpha Male: Decoding the Personalities and What Women Should Know: Once upon a time, the alpha male was all the rage. It was Andrew Tate or nothing. The cold, unfeeling stud, always on his game, breaking hearts along the way. But, as is usually the case, no one gets to enjoy a monopoly […]
Are Single Women the Happiest People on Earth?
A recent Forbes article – “4 Reasons Why Single Women Are the Happiest People on Earth” has sparked a flurry of online discussions. The very clever psychologist Dr. Travis Stork breaks down the research behind this claim, exploring the potential benefits and drawbacks of the single life for women. Interestingly, my systematic review on marriage […]
Single Life: 5 Signs He’s Genuinely Built for Happy Solo Ending
Single Life: “You read me wrong, I wasn’t trying to lead you on, Not like you think, I didn’t mean to turn you on”. Robert Palmer put it so succinctly in his 1986 hit single. Single life: It is what it is Well, here’s a simple truth. Not a very popular one, but a truth […]
Is He Playing You? 6 Bright Red Flags Say Yes!
Is he playing you? Can you tell if he’s serious or just out for a little fun? If you’re not terribly interested in a serious relationship yourself, then you’re in luck. You’ll both enjoy a fun non-committal relationship and when either or both of you are tired, you can move on. But what if YOU […]
Cougars and Cubs: Smart Millennial Women & Easy Gen Z Men
Cougars and cubs are likely to be at different stages in their lives, with quite different levels of education, career, or personal growth. Admittedly, the men have had it their way for a very long time. Older guys aka sugar daddies or zaddies even, had their pick of all available and willing women. And the […]
Dating a low(er) guy – Should class and background really matter?
The short answer of course is yes. Class and background do matter. A great deal in fact. Yet, it’s the biggest elephant in the room, when choosing a partner these days. In these parts, the women are looking at his bank balance, or at least the indicators of what it might look like, while the […]
