When it comes to meeting someone new, asking the right questions can make all the difference. Flirty questions can help break the ice and create a playful atmosphere. And there are several tricks to a good flirt. Ok, let’s not use the word “trick”. Instead, we’ll say the key to a successful flirt, is confidence. In fact, some would go even further and call it “cocky”. But we’ll work with both. Sitting right next to confident in your flirting arsenal is “funny”. So, as a guy looking to have any sort of success in the dating field, you want to be cocky and funny…,or just have tons of money and be done with it.
Pleased to meet you
Unfortunately, not all of us have enough money to be mute and still get attention. The vast majority of guys need to be on their A-game if they ever hope to have a companion. And so what exactly should you say in those first few minutes of meeting a girl you’re interested in? That 1st impression is so key, you need to get it right. Of course, we’re assuming you’re well turned out already. Lets delve in and explore some nice icebreakers, in no particular order:
What’s the craziest thing a nice churchy girl like you has ever done?
You’ve cockily assumed that she’s churchy. Aside revealing her adventurous side, this one dares her a little. It’s the bad boy tempting the good girl approach. Make her want to impress you with how bad she can be. Might even lead to some exciting stories. But, be prepared for a stonewall with this one, and move on quickly if that is indeed the case. Don’t force it. You might come off a little perverted.
You look like a good girl. Is there anything about you that could possibly shock me?
This is similar to the first question, but speaks to her more hidden pleasures as opposed to deeds. And it really doesn’t have to be naughty, though nicer if it is. Maybe she’s a snooker champion. Or she’s a biker. Hopefully, it should encourage her to share something interesting that would lead to even better rapport.
What would you like to ask me? Anything, shoot!
Now you’re flipping the script. You’re drawing her out, and getting her to engage. But not engaging from her comfort zone, where she manages what she says about herself. This time, she’s venturing into your space on invitation. Make it count.
Would you ever go on a blind date?
Blind dates suggest 2 things – a curious nature, or desperation. So listen attentively to her. More importantly however, you’re suggesting this to subtly introduce dating into your conversation. Regardless of her response, you can so easily steer things in your direction. “Good thing you can see exactly what I look like. The fact that you’re still here means you’re interested”. Playful hints at the possibility of a date with you can help determine if you’re wasting your time or not.
If you and I were to go out on a date, where would we go?
You want to pay attention here. Everything she says at this point can be used as reference. And, you can be cocky and funny as you like whatever her response is. For example she says “I’d like to go salsa dancing”. You can counter with “sweaty bodies, close contact, rhythmic movements…, all on the 1st date. I see how your mind works”. She wants to watch a movie. You say “how then do I look into your eyes, or hear that voice of yours in a movie theatre? Clearly, we’ll have to have an immediate 2nd date afterwards”. Confidence.
How would you describe yourself in 5 words?
Gives you a quick glimpse into her personality. You might want to brush up on your own knowledge and interpretation of personality traits before you go this route. Best of all, this one is easy. Almost too easy in fact. It’s in the same realm as horoscopes and palm reading. Super flirt tools you must have. So if you’re even half knowledgeable about any of these concepts, use it. She says she’s an introvert, you say “oh, the tigers behind closed doors”. She’s an extrovert: “I knew it from the way you held your glass”. Point is, it almost doesn’t matter what she says. It’s how you use what she says.
What is your biggest turn-off with guys?
If she hates guys with “H-factor” and you’re a sufferer, then it’s over. If you’re not, then fake it to make her laugh. “Oh she hates loud guys”. Whisper so softly she has to bend over to hear you. This is the funny side of you doing the work. And boy does it work!
What is your biggest turn-on with guys?
She’ll probably say money, and suddenly, you’re in the spotlight. She’s starring intently at you, waiting for your response. A wrong move here, and its downhill for sure. But because you engineered yourself into the spotlight, you ought to be ready to make the most of it. So hit back with an offer of either Monaco or Milan for her next holiday. You have no problem at all doing LV or Chanel bags. But, you will take your pound of flesh. What that is will be revealed in due course. So you haven’t shied away at the mention of money. And you haven’t turned boastful either. Remains to be seen just how generous you are, based on how much you can afford.
Remember, the key is to be genuine, respectful even, and attentive to her responses, as you flirt. Use these questions as a starting point to build rapport. Remember not to overdo the corky, the funny or the confidence. Mix it up, and most of all, read her mood, expressions and body language.
