How to test a woman’s love

A few weeks ago, we set out to discover how to test if a potential partner was worth the bother. After all, women test men all the time, making us feel like we need to “earn the right of place” beside them. So we flipped the script. There are at least as many potential psycho girlfriends in waiting as there are psycho boyfriends. In fact, there should be more potential psycho girlfriends, if the science is to be believed. And we believe in our science here for sure.

So we have the second half of the list of possible tests to employ, just to make doubly sure of what you might be getting yourself into:

The Shared Values Test

Instead of directly asking about her values, bring up topics that indirectly reveal them. For example: Discuss current events or social issues and observe her perspective. Talk about your hobbies, passions, or goals and see if she shares similar interests or supports yours. Share a personal story that reflects your values and see if she resonates with it.

This approach helps you gauge alignment without putting her on the spot.

The “Stress” Test

This is a big one. While you probably shouldn’t intentionally create stress, pay attention to how she handles challenging situations. How does she react when plans fall through or something goes wrong? Does she stay calm and solution-oriented, or does she become overly emotional or blame others? Her ability to manage stress and adversity is a strong indicator of emotional resilience and maturity.

The “Future Talk” Test

Casually bring up future-oriented topics to see how she responds. “I’m thinking of renovating the family house in the village, part of my plans to take a chieftaincy title around my 40th birthday”. “I’d love to have a girl first. I hope she looks more like you than me though”. Now this might seem like a variation of the stress test, and in some ways, it is. But the extra dimension of a shared future gives clear insights into where her head (and heart) might be.

If she’s all about the here and now, and can’t even contemplate your strange chieftaincy at 40 yarn, or thoughts of diapers and figure-altering pregnancies just put her off totally, you might want to have a rethink! You want enthusiasm and clarity in her vision.

The “Gut Check” Test

Trust your instincts. After spending time with her, ask yourself, do I feel energized and uplifted after our interactions, or drained and anxious? Do I feel respected, valued, and understood? Does she make me want to do more, be more, or do I find myself compromising my values? It’s not romantic if she encourages binge drink and skimp on work just so you can to go to the cinema in the middle of a work day.

If it’s a one-off, maybe. If it’s recurring, and you can’t shake that “I really shouldn’t be doing this” feeling, you might want to reassess things. If you have to constantly ask yourself why you’re there or what it is you’re doing with this person, pay close attention to that inner voice.

The check out: How to test a woman’s love

Apparently, men are not supposed to have intuition. It’s not true. Both men and women have intuition, BUT, not everyone has. If you’re one of the fortunate guys who does possess intuition, then the advise is to use it. For clarity, your intuition as mentioned above, is your gut feeling. It’s the ability to understand something without using conscious reasoning.

And I end the article by reiterating this point. Because it is almost impossible to truly know a person. Especially a person who has spent maybe a quarter of a century creating a persona with which you had no interaction whatsoever. How then can you really decipher all there might be to her in a few short months? You cannot.

So. After all our carefully laid out plans and tests, you will end up with your instincts. Pray they work as they should. Good luck.